Wednesday, April 26, 2006

First Quarter Results

Calvin is three months old!

He celebrated this milestone on nice walks with Grandma (Caldwell) in the bright April sun. They went down to the lake (for a nap) and to the park next door (to scope out his future playground). Aww....

As he wraps up his ninety day probationary period, I'm glad to report that we're going to keep him! He passed with flying colors.

Big Boy Bath

Calvin has more control over his extremeties these days and he loves to kick his big strong legs. This development has made bath time interesting. Gone are the days of quiet baths by the window. After a few consecutive days of floor-soaking kick fests, we moved his little blue tub into the big tub. Here he can kick all he wants.

He is able to control his arms more, too. After washing his face, I place the washcloth on his chest to keep him warm. But he has learned to get his hand under it, bring it to his mouth and make the cutest sucking sound as he drains the water from it.

This kid is just the best. Every little thing he does is wonderful!

Friday, April 21, 2006

Spring Has Sprung

Easter weekend produced beautiful, "can't possibly stay inside" weather, and before long, Cal found himself lying in fresh green grass under blooming daffodils. Delicious.

When I first learned that we'd have a January baby, I was worried about being cooped up inside all winter until a friend told me that her winter birth was wonderful. They hibernated for the first few months, and by the time she was ready to go outside, so was her little one.

That has proven true for Calvin and me, too. After a relaxing and restful winter, spring has sprung in the Midwest, and we're ready to play.

Legacy



With granddaughters to smother with sugar, and spice, and everything nice, both Grandpa (Caldwell, left) and Papa (Anderson) are excited to have a grandson with whom they can discuss snakes, and snails, and puppy dog tails. Or at least tractors. John Deere, of course.

It's really something to see these two men come to a complete stop when their grandkids are around.

My, What Big Ears You Have


Calvin met the Easter Bunny this year, and Grammy (Anderson) provided a new pair of ears to celebrate.

Cousin Ava knew enough to be a little concerned about a big, white creature in the living room, but Cal just took it all in, trying to make sense of it.

He took to the ears a little better. Or maybe it was just Mom leaning in for a kiss that got him smiling.

Saturday, April 08, 2006

Superman

When Cal is finished eating, he "dismounts" with pizzazz. He stretches so that I need to lay him down on my lap, at which point he assumes the position pictured here.

Maybe he's flying high on milk, but with one hand behind his head and the other straight up, it's kind of like his own version of the Superman flight pose.

It cracks me up every time.

Passing the Torch

My Grandma Caldwell was a special woman. In fact, her grand-daughters have talked of naming their own child after her. So it's fitting that when there's a new Grandma Caldwell on the block, she, too, is a woman worthy of a namesake.

Often behind the camera of the pictures featured on this site, my mother has been a behind-the-scenes source of wisdom throughout my life, and I continue to learn from her in my new role as mother. She has shown me how to slow down enough to appreciate the quiet details of a person -- even an infant -- and to find joy and beauty in these unique aspects.

Ladies and Gentlemen, the new and improved Grandma Caldwell.

Cribs

Calvin spent his first two months in a moses basket next to our bed. It was cozy for him and convenient for me when he awoke to eat every two hours. At nine weeks, though, it was a little too cozy, and I was ready for a little more distance between us. (See? I'm learning. I'm growing.)

A visit to Grandma (Caldwell's) prompted an attempt at sleeping in a crib. I left the moses basket at home and we went cold turkey. Lo and behold, Cal slept beautifully. So upon our return home, he officially moved into his own room and into his crib. Such a big boy.

And, yes, my child occasionally sleeps on his stomach. Sue me.

Little Sucker

Legend: I came out of the womb with callouses on my thumbs from sucking them in utero.

Fact: Calvin emerged content to suck on his fist or knuckles.

Recently, however, he is discovering that his fingers come apart, and seems to be trying to figure out why his thumb is so much shorter than the others.

He'll put his fist to his mouth with his thumb arched for entry, but he twists at the last minute, opting for the familiar knuckle sandwich instead. Or he'll let the thumb have a go at it, but only safely accompanied by another finger.




It's fun for me to see him enjoy his fingers. My thumb was a trusted companion for many years. Fact.

Friday, March 31, 2006

April Showers (almost)

Alright, so it was technically still March, but just barely.

To set the scene, Cal triumphantly made a mess of things just before he was to get a bath of his own. So since I was already in the shower, in with me he went.

I wondered how he would react to rain drop effect when he's used to still waters, but he took to it like a pro -- even when directly under the faucet to rinse his shampoo.

Bath time is still the best, but it's good to know that we can shower, too, in a pinch.

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Grammy's Magic Touch

A family dinner in honor of Grammy (Anderson's) birthday went later than little Cal could. However, not one to miss out on a party, he wasn't thrilled at the idea of sleeping in another room. So Grammy graciously offered to hold him while he slept contently in her arms.

Her love for this little guy is evident, isn't it? Calvin is a lucky boy to have this much love and tenderness in his life.

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Pond Hopping

After offering (perhaps even threatening?) to take a rolling pin to my belly in order to get Calvin out before his return to England in early January, Eric's brother,Uncle Ryan, reluctantly boarded the plane and resumed his studies abroad. However, he kept close tabs on his new nephew with pictures and updates, and returned to the States at his first opportunity to meet the little guy, now just two months old. Not bad considering the miles separating them.

Cal wore his "Howdy Partner" shirt as a welcome from our President in his native tongue.

Cousin Ava


Their first meeting was a little less than eventful. Eric's brother, Uncle Kurt, could hardly keep Aunt Denee away, but Ava was more interested in the cat. Naturally. Jake moves around more. And he has a tail.

However, before long, Ava was curious about our little guy, too, and now they show up at gatherings coincidentally dressed alike, which is the tie that binds for anyone, right?

Saturday, March 25, 2006

Say Cheese!







Around six weeks of age, Calvin started smiling real smiles (i.e. not gas-related). It's wonderful to watch one come across his face. It starts in his eyes, then his mouth takes over, and there's usually a little head jiggle with arms a-flailin'. And now, at eight weeks, he talks along with them -- making sweet little melodic sounds. He such a joyous little guy.
Click here to hear him talking with Grandma. http://www.vsocial.com/video/?d=21235

Saturday, March 04, 2006

Uncle Shane

When Cherith's brother, Uncle Shane, received the call that we were in labor, he and his girlfriend, Cassie, jumped in the car and made their way to Lake Geneva. However, school midterms meant that they could only stay for the first 15 of our 45 hour adventure.

Before they left, though, the final picture of our belly war was taken. As you can see, I won by a landslide, with a much larger belly than Shane's. And I believe I may have weighed more at the end, too.

In this case alone, that's considered a victory.

Shane did make it back to meet his nephew during our first night at home. Poor Cal cried the whole time, making a great first impression. Fortunately, there have been other chances for the two to get acquainted in a calmer fashion, and there will be more to come.

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Grammy Great

Calvin's first outing included a visit to Grammy Great, Eric's maternal grandmother. Cal and I teamed up with Grammy (Anderson) and met her for lunch. Along with being a special person in her own right, Vera was also Elom's wife. She was pleased to meet her first great grandson, named for her late husband.

Vera is known for speaking her mind, and she said Cal was adorable. I'm sure she doesn't have maternal blindness that I do ... right?

Monday, February 27, 2006

Everything IN the Kitchen Sink

Calvin is so adaptable. We have initiated a routine around bed time to provide some stability in his life, but he doesn't seem to mind if we switch things up a little. For example, while staying at Grandma & Grandpa (Caldwell's) house, we bathed him in the kitchen sink instead of in his blue tub. He loved it. And he couldn't take his eyes off of Aunt Jenifer, who lent a helping hand.

Saturday, February 25, 2006

Aunts and Uncles and Cousins ... Oh My!

We were lucky enough to have a visit from Cherith's brother, Uncle Chris, the day after Calvin was born. However, because they live in Salt Lake City, Aunt Jenifer and Cousin Chloe had to wait a month to meet little Cal. The visit was well worth the wait.

We had so much fun together, and Chloe ... well, she loves her cousin already. She crawled right over to him with a big hug all prepared.

Monday, February 20, 2006

A New Friend

From his first moments of life, Calvin has had many people excited to meet him. Grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and close friends have come from far and wide to see our little guy. And while they are each precious to us, we were thrilled when my best friend, Julie, brought her son to town before Cal was even one month old.

They live in NY, and Wil is three months older than Calvin. As you can imagine, being pregnant at the same time was fun, but having boys so close in age is too good for words. We're convinced that they'll be the best of friends. I mean, just look at them!

Thursday, February 09, 2006

Bath Time

Calvin hated the first bath that his dad and I gave him. We straddled his blue tub across our kitchen sink and went at it, our little one screaming the whole time. Disheartened, we skipped bath time the next day.

But then Grandma (Caldwell) offered a new approach. She put the tub by the window in the bathroom, closed the door to let the room get toasty, then eased Cal into the tub, letting his feet get used to the water first. BRILLIANT! He was so relaxed he nearly fell asleep, but he peed instead ... the true sign of contentment.

Now he has a bath every night before bed. And he loves every minute of it.